Widow reveals particulars of Nahim’s final days

Andreia de Andradewidow of Nahimrevealed transferring particulars in regards to the days main as much as and following the singer’s dying in an interview with the portal LeoDias. In line with her, the influence of that second was overwhelming, particularly after a decisive dialog they’d the night time earlier than the tragedy.

Though the couple introduced their separation months earlier, Andreia mentioned that they continued to stay as husband and spouse. All the time discreet, the businesswoman selected to protect the picture of Nahimhowever admitted to having taken a agency stance out of affection for him.

“Earlier than loving the NahimI wanted to like myself, as a result of he did not love himself, he wasn’t permitting himself to like himself due to many points”he revealed. Andreia he defined that these issues included conflicts together with his ex-wife, authorized disputes over lease and the division of belongings.

Deep melancholy and absence of grandchildren

She additionally reported how the absence of her grandchildren weighed closely on the artist. “He wasn’t in a position to see his grandchildren. When he came upon that his first granddaughter was about to show three years outdated, he already had a second grandchild from the identical daughter. He was very depressed after that and gave himself up there.”he vented.

The singer’s melancholy was a troublesome problem for the couple. “O Nahim I went right into a deep melancholy, I did not need assist and I felt tied down, as a result of any state of affairs I did I knew can be a scandal and I wished to keep away from it within the press. (…) I advised him that, if he did not search assist, I would not comply and, so as to not hurt him, I might separate”he added.

Household conflicts worsened Nahim’s well being

Regardless of all of the adversities, Andreia didn’t break ties with Nahimstaying by his aspect and providing help. In a outstanding second of the interview, she recalled the final dialog they’d earlier than the singer’s dying.

“He requested me for an opportunity and I mentioned that, if he behaved correctly, I might give him that likelihood. In reality, we went to dinner and I had agreed to return again the following day to repair the curtain…”he mentioned.

Even with so many painful recollections, Andreia highlighted how troublesome it’s nonetheless to speak about what they skilled. “After I obtained the information of his passing, I went into shock. After I bear in mind his final phrases that night time, I nonetheless get misplaced in it, I can not get out of this dialog. It looks like he asks me for forgiveness for every little thing, asks me for an opportunity and says it would change. I actually consider that”he acknowledged.

With tears within the phrases, Andreia shared how the ache continues to be current. “It hurts for me. Typically individuals do not realize how a lot it hurts. I cherished him very a lot, I knew about his daughter’s contempt, his ex-wife’s neglect. I knew about this complete state of affairs and I felt helpless as a result of I could not do something nothing however supporting him, loving him and, like I mentioned, earlier than loving him I ought to love myself first”he defined.

Nahim confronted drug issues shortly earlier than his dying

Lastly, the businesswoman revealed that medicine additionally contributed to the ultimate moments of Nahim. “The usage of medicine got here, and he let the medicine get carried away, and I advised him: ‘I need to keep away from a scandal and, when this scandal occurs, I need to be far-off’. However I used to be nearer than I might have been think about. I did not learn about it, however anyway, it occurred.”he concluded.

Nonetheless within the means of overcoming, Andreia acknowledged that grief continues to be a terrific problem. “I nonetheless marvel each day why all of it occurred like this. It is exhausting to simply accept”concluded the therapist.