#Sorrynotsorry, it reveals so much about your character.
As soon as in a blue moon, I’ll have a second on the web that makes me understand how distinctive my life actually is. Extra particularly, I’ve a surprising variety of completely platonic male associates.
Just lately, I noticed a narrative on YourTango’s Instagram with a debate about who was the incorrect get together. The essential gist of it went like this:
- Man was associates with woman for 3 years.
- Lady usually requested man to stroll her residence after she events as a result of they reside subsequent to one another.
- Man obliges.
- Man catches emotions, asks woman out, woman rejects him.
- Lady asks to be walked residence a month or so later as a result of she received tipsy and felt unsafe strolling alone at evening, man refuses.
The query was easy: is the man a jerk? My reply: sure. Nearly each male reply within the feedback was no, with them including one thing alongside the road of “Don’t count on boyfriend duties if you happen to’re not a girlfriend.”
Nicely, jeez. Some “good friend,” eh? For me, strolling somebody who feels scared and is in a weak state is one thing you do as a…